October Drop

First off …sorry this one’s late.

It’s October 9th, and I’m just now getting this out.

Between a few big projects, some travel for work and play (congrats to my dawg Pete), and trying to find time for rest.

I’ve been busy.

Makes me think, honestly.

Everyone says they’re “busy.”

It’s like the default answer now — “How’s life?” → “Busy, man.”

We wear it like a badge of honor, as if being busy automatically means we’re important, successful, or moving forward.

Truth is, I think it’s garbage and it annoys me. (forgive me for saying it yo)

Are you busy, or are you productive?

Or are you just saying it because you’re worried about what I think?

Some people act like if life isn’t chaotic, they’re somehow failing.

But there’s nothing wrong with slow seasons. Just own it.

Sometimes things are calm, and that’s good/ok.

It’s honestly where some real thought and clarity can happen.

Value isn’t measured in hours worked. It’s measured in progress made or impact.

Progress can be slow but it doesn’t have to be “busy”.

I’ve really been struggling with this “busy”, though, on the reality of the brevity of life.

I’m now 32 and it feels like I just turned 22 yesterday.

Made me lean back into what it all means and the hope I have in Jesus.

I’ve been deep into studying who He really was, understanding His words, His actions, Him.

I can’t really think about much else honestly.

I also met a Muslim friend recently who challenged me (in a good way) to know what I believe and why.

That led me to read Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus by Nabeel Qureshi. Phenomenal book, highly recommend it.

I’m also working through The Case for Christ . Another solid read if you’re curious about the foundations of faith and evidence.

The impact here is eternal.

Between that, work, and everything else going on, I’ve realized:

Busyness doesn’t always equal growth. And it can lead to missing life.

Slow down and don’t stress about being busy.

Focus on moving the needle. Whatever that means for you.

Be intentional. Be present. And when you do anything, make it count.

Regardless, I would encourage you to think about the eternal and how quickly the end of life comes.

What happens when you blink and get there?

TLDR: Sorry I’m late, I was busy pretending to not be busy. Anyway, here’s what’s worth your time this month:

Tuesday, October 14 – ULI South Carolina Coastal WLI On The Town: Moxy Tour & Happy Hour

Time: 5:00–7:00 p.m.
Details: Women’s Leadership Initiative networking event and property tour at Moxy Charleston Downtown. Women only.

Wednesday, October 15 – RISE: Coffee and Conversations (Mount Pleasant Chamber)

Time: 7:30–9:00 a.m.
Venue: Novant East Cooper Medical Center
Details: Morning networking for women in business.

Thursday, October 16 – MPCC Bi-Monthly Luncheon with Dr. Michael Weeks

Time: 11:30 a.m.–1:00 p.m.
Venue: Omar Shrine Center
Speaker: Dr. Michael R. Weeks, The Citadel
Details: One of the Mount Pleasant Chamber’s largest gatherings apparently.

Monday, October 20 – Charleston Metro Chamber VIP Reception

Time: 4:30–6:00 p.m.
Venue: Womble Bond Dickinson
Details: Exclusive pre-event networking for the Economic Outlook Conference.

Tuesday, October 21 – Charleston Metro Chamber Economic Outlook Conference 2025

Time: 12:00–1:30 p.m.
Venue: Trident Technical College, Building 920, 7000 Rivers Ave, North Charleston
Cost: Members $120 | Non-Members $170
Details: Presented by South Carolina Federal Credit Union. Hear economic insights from local, national, and global leaders.

Wednesday, October 22 – AMA Charleston: High Tech High Tide

Details: Event for founders, product leaders, and investors in Charleston’s tech scene.
Event Link

Thursday, October 23 – Young Leaders United (YLU) Monthly Happy Hour

Time: 5:00 p.m.
Venue: Edmund’s Oast Brewing Co., 1505 King St #115, Downtown Charleston
Details: Open networking event for young professionals — casual, fun, and easy to meet new people.

Tuesday, October 28 – Rockstar Connect: Free Downtown Charleston Networking Event

Time: 5:00–7:00 p.m.
Venue: Edmund’s Oast Brewing Co., 1505 King St #115, Charleston
Host: Katie Blomquist, Founder of Going Places
Details: Free entry (just buy your own drink). Open to all industries and experience levels.

Wednesday, October 29 – Halloween Meetup Mashup

Time: 5:00–11:00 p.m.
Venue: Frothy Beard Brewing Co. 1401 Sam Rittenberg Blvd 29407 · Charleston, SC
Details: Charleston Women in Tech, Charleston InfoSec Group, SC Tech, Dig South, and TechYeet Charleston to bring the whole community together for one big night. It's a chance to meet, mix, and mash up with the community. Wear a costume, bring a friend, and be part of the mashup. RSVP

Thursday, October 30 – Young Professionals Group Rooftop Connect & Compete

Time: 5:00–7:00 p.m.
Venue: Hilton Garden Inn Rooftop
Details: End the month strong with this networking event for emerging professionals — good people, better views.

Catch you next month, unless I’m busy 😆 

— Josh
a.k.a. the mayor

P.S. Be Free